What I learned this week.

I learned something about myself this week. I have realized that I take way too much “stuff” from people in order to have a friendship with them. I also learned that if someone didn’t think much of me as a human being 35 years ago, they don’t now, either. I invest my time and energy…

I am grateful for last words.

#ProjectZen #Day24 #GratitudeProject I have a private message sitting in my Facebook inbox from a friend. It’s from someone I knew over 25 years ago when I was in the Army in Germany. We weren’t “close friends” back in the day, but we did work together, and he did train me in a new job.…

I’m not OK, but I will be.

My biggest faults: 1. Chasing after people who don’t want me. 2. Worrying about what others think. 3. Being too emotional/sensitive. 4. Apologizing for things that are not my fault. 5. Harboring expected reciprocity of feelings. 6. Depending on others to feel good about myself. I have spent (as of tomorrow) 50 years not feeling…