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Lima Beans and Love Stories: Confessions of a Former Skeptic

The author reflects on personal transformations from childhood to adulthood, revealing a newfound love for baby Lima beans, grits, and romantic movies that they once despised. Their experiences, particularly during Army basic training in Alabama, and the evolution of their tastes highlight how perceptions can change over time, illustrating the journey from dislike to appreciation.

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Military Holidays

The post outlines U.S. military holidays, observances, and special events organized by month. It highlights federal holidays, significant military dates, and awareness months. Notably, it includes the CISM Military World Summer Games scheduled for 2027, alongside information on the Ms. Veteran America Pageant supporting homeless women veterans, and R.E.D. Friday.

2026 VA disability compensation projected payment schedule with months and corresponding payment dates

2026 V.A. Disability Payment Schedule and Rates

The Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) issues disability compensation payments on the first business day of each month, with adjustments for weekends and holidays. In 2026, a 2.8% Cost of Living Adjustment will apply. Compensation rates vary by disability rating and dependent status, with specific monthly amounts outlined for each rating category.

That meeting with the Top Brass…

The Secretary of War and President held a mandatory meeting for high-ranking military officers, which raised security concerns due to the concentration of personnel from various locations. The administration has controversially dismissed several high-ranking female officers involved in diversity initiatives, sparking debate over gender-neutral standards in military roles and the implications for women’s future in combat positions.

A Christmas Eve memory.

On Christmas Eve 1985 in Frankfurt, a young American soldier on guard duty experienced a heartwarming moment. A jovial group of German locals, slightly inebriated, offered him a bottle of wine while singing festive wishes. This unexpected gesture transformed his cold, lonely night and left a lasting impression.

A round bronze recovery medallion featuring a detailed engraving of an eagle with an American flag background and the text "VETERANS IN RECOVERY".

How I spent my summer.

The author reflects on a challenging period marked by worsening depression and isolation since February. They voluntarily participated in a 90-day residential V.A. treatment program for PTSD, which included various therapies and supportive interactions with peers. Although not fully healed, the author gained valuable coping skills and feels committed to their recovery journey.

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32 years later, I came undone. 🚩

CONTENT WARNING: This post discusses abuse, violence, and sexual assault.. Details: Events are mentioned using accurate terms but without graphic descriptions. Media: There are no images. Audience: Reader discretion is advised. Not suitable for children. In this blog post, the author shares her own personal experience with sexual assault.