The Non-Traditional Path: Why I Am a Lifelong Learner

Daily writing prompt
Are you a lifelong learner?

When answering the question, “Are you a lifelong learner?” my immediate answer is yes. However, my journey hasn’t followed a straight line. As an adult, my education has been largely non-traditional, resulting in a fragmented resume that I long viewed as a personal “wall of shame.”

For years, I carried deep regret and embarrassment over never finishing my associate degree. I struggled with massive gaps in my resume and felt judged—mostly by myself—when looking for jobs. While I never judge others for their lack of a degree, I was hyper-critical of my own path.

Today, I choose to look at that timeline differently. It isn’t a list of failures; it is a timeline of curiosity, adaptability, and continuous growth.


  • 1984: Graduated from Bear Lake High School, Michigan.
  • 1984–1988: Served in the U.S. Army, completing Military Police OSUT training at Ft. McClellan and the Primary Leadership Development Course at Ft. Hood.
  • 1985: Completed a Counter-Terrorism Course through Central Texas College in Frankfurt, Germany.
  • 1999–2001: Attended Parkland College in Champaign, Illinois, falling just one semester short of a Liberal Arts degree.
  • 2002–2005: Shifted into healthcare and public safety, earning an ECG/EKG certification, an Illinois State EMT certification, and an Illinois State Firefighter II certification.
  • 2020–Present: Used pandemic isolation to take free, college-level Coursera courses. Today, I am actively taking a Tai Chi class and an online conversational German course.

True lifelong learning extends far beyond a classroom wall or a diploma. For me, it is a daily practice driven by a voracious appetite for knowledge.

  • Active Reading: I read deeply across fiction and autobiographies to understand the lived experiences of people I admire.
  • Global Perspectives: I consume daily news from right, centrist, and left-leaning sources to understand different viewpoints. I also watch international news to see how the world perceives the United States.
  • Curated Media: I regularly watch high-quality documentaries on PBS, BBC, and National Geographic, taking care to seek out balanced global examinations rather than opinion pieces.
  • Daily Curiosity: I attend online seminars regarding mental health, well-being, and writing mechanics. I even challenge myself in the kitchen by cooking unfamiliar ethnic dishes.

As I get older, I realize that seeking out new experiences is the ultimate exercise for the brain. It is also an excellent form of mindfulness. When you immerse yourself in a book, a language lesson, or a documentary, you are entirely present in that moment.

If you are reflecting on your own educational journey today, I encourage you to look beyond formal degrees. Count the books you’ve read, the skills you’ve mastered, and the perspective you’ve gained.


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